“We’re not completely unhappy” and other half baked statements about your relationship

Relationship Coaching

Are you settling?

Have you given yourself over to having a sub standard kind of love?

Do you think you should just be more grateful for what you have and not expect more?

Then I am here to tell you you’ve got it wrong.

Being ‘not completely unhappy’ is as good saying you are unhappy most of the time.

When did that become acceptable?

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Seeking Happiness

Recently I had the opportunity to talk to a friend going through a relationship break-up and although I’m not their coach (I tend not to coach friends) we got talking about what they are going through, how they got there and what the future holds.

Everyone has their reasons for ending a relationship but I was struck by the fact that this friend seemed to hold their ex wholly responsible for not making her happy in hers and although she praised him for being a wonderful, kind, caring, love and intelligent person who was great with her kids, in the same breath she also went on to say that she just wasn’t happy and wanted someone who would make her happy.

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Write Your Own Love Story

Love Story

Love can be hard to find.

Good quality, genuine, long lasting love that is.

We all look for it, and sometimes we find it, but a lot of times we don’t or we think we do, only to be let down.

It hurts, it aches, but we’re not easily discouraged when it comes to love because we know how good it feels when we find it again. So we get back out there and keep looking.

Randomly, in any place, at any time.

Love is like that. It hangs out everywhere and anywhere. You can find it all over the place. Or something that looks and seems like it anyway.

But how do you know if what you find is what you are looking for?

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